Patriarchy: a look at both sides of the coin

For Every Woman
By Nancy R. Smith, copyright 1973
found here

For every woman who is tired of acting weak when she knows she is strong there is a man who is tired of appearing strong when he feels vulnerable.

For every woman who is tired of acting dumb, there is a man who is burdened with the constant expectation of "knowing everything."

For every woman who is tired of being called "an emotional female," there is a man who is denied the right to weep and to be gentle.

For every woman who is called unfeminine when she competes, there is a man for whom competition is the only way to prove his masculinity.

For every woman who is tired of being a sex object, there is a man who must worry about his potency.

For every woman who feels "tied down" by her children, there is a man who is denied the full pleasures of shared parenthood.

For every woman who is denied meaningful employment or equal pay, there is a man who must bear full financial responsibility for another human being.

For every woman who was not taught the intricacies of an automobile, there is a man who was not taught the satisfactions of cooking.

For every woman who takes a step at her own liberation, there is man who finds the way to freedom has been made a little easier.

Whether or not you disagree with the main voices of feminism, there are plenty of women and men who relate to Ms. Smith's words. Could it be that a main concern of feminism these days isn't equal pay (though it's definitely still an issue), birth control, or supplanting patriarchy with matriarchy, but an interest in making life fair for both women and men? And by extension, creating more sustainable, happier relationships? Just a thought.